I will never take for granted having medical providers I like and trust. My OB/GYN surgeon inspired confidence and was super friendly.
First off, the procedure I'll be getting isn't just an oophorectomy, it's called a bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy (BSO). "Salpingo" means "relating to fallopian tubes". Apparently, fallopian tubes serve no purpose without ovaries, plus many ovarian cancers may actually originate in the fallopian tubes, so it just makes sense to also remove fallopian tubes when removing ovaries.
It will be laparoscopic, with 3 entry points. (I found this part fascinating.) One will be through my bellybutton, and the other two will be 0.5 cm incisions towards the outer edges of my hip. I'll get general anesthesia, and the procedure itself should take about an hour. She already scheduled the surgery for June 16th, and I'll have a follow-up appointment 3-4 weeks after that. I'll have typical post-surgery restrictions (e.g., no heavy lifting) for 2 weeks afterwards, and she said full recovery should be "a few weeks".
Before the surgery, I'll need a pelvic ultrasound so the doctor can confirm that the surgery can be done laparoscopically. I'll also need a covid test, which the doctor said will be done at the hospital a couple days beforehand. The hospital for this surgery will not be my usual hospital location, and also not the new OB/GYN office location, but another satellite hospital location. A bit more of a drive, but still better than driving into the city.
After the surgery, I'll be in surgically-induced menopause, which can sometimes lead to more severe menopause symptoms because the loss of estrogen is more drastic than when the ovaries gradually shut down naturally. But, since I've already been on Lupron for so long, and my body has already experienced chemically-induced menopause, the doctor says my menopause-related symptoms shouldn't be too bad compared with what I already have now. I may have new or worse symptoms for a few months, but hopefully they will only be temporary.
My estradiol will continue to be monitored, at least for a while, to make sure it's <5 as expected.
I'm assuming I'll just continue with anastrozole, but I'm not sure, I'll have to ask my oncologist about it.
After all this, it occurs to me that if I had gotten my ovaries out earlier, I would never have been put on Tamoxifen (which is only for premenopausal women), and I never would have gotten non-alcoholic fatty liver disease. That's a whole extra medical condition that puts me at high risk for covid! Oh, well. Could not have been predicted.