9/16/26: OB/GYN Appointment

Of course, by nature of this provider's specialty, this post might be TMI. 

I didn't post about my OB/GYN appointments in the last couple years because I figured those visits weren't cancer-specific. But then I realized: I only started seeing an OB/GYN again (after having kids) because of issues related to cancer treatment; without those complications, and since my PCP can handle things like pap smears, do I still need to see an OB/GYN?

I brought up this question at my last oncology appointment, and my oncologist suggested I continue seeing the OB/GYN at least as long as I'm getting hormone therapy, especially since the OB/GYN can best advise in matters related to menopause. 

My original OB/GYN doctor retired a couple years ago. There was a temporary replacement at my last appointment, but today's appointment was with an NP who I can expect to be my provider moving forward. She was friendly and efficient. 

We touched upon all my menopause symptoms. For poor sleep, she suggested taking magnesium glycinate in the evening before bed. I told her I had tried it before for anxiety, and then had given up on it, but maybe I can consider taking it again. I think it's interesting that I now have 2 NPs who have been supportive of magnesium glycinate (this OB/GYN NP and my medical oncology NP) and 2 doctors who haven't been too keen on the idea (my PCP and my cardiologist). Well, I'll think about it.

For anxiety, she said if I wanted to take medication, I could consider something like Lexapro, which might also improve hot flashes. My hot flashes aren't nearly as bad as they used to be, so that's not really much of an incentive, but I do wonder what life might be like if I didn't have so much anxiety... Still, I'd prefer not to take medication unless it's necessary, and I think I'm managing okay with mindfulness and meditation. But, I'll think about it.

Finally, we talked about vaginal dryness. I told her that my oncologist said it would be okay to try a vaginal estrogen cream, because the amount of estrogen absorbed into the body would be minimal. But then I admitted that I haven't even properly tried the non-estrogen moisturizers previously recommended; so far I've only used Aquaphor topically and externally for itching, and it helps. She reiterated some of the same recommendations I'd already gotten from previous OB/GYNs and my oncologist, specifically, coconut oil and Revaree. Again, not sure I need them, but it's good to know what the options are.

9/15/26: PCP Appointment

I don't always post about PCP appointments because they are not specifically cancer-related, but today's appointment definitely involved cancer-related issues.

First, I have to say, more than 7 years after being diagnosed, cancer is still not some "bump in the road" that is in the rear-view mirror - and I don't think it ever will be for me. For the rest of my life I will have to address health issues that are very likely a consequence of cancer treatment - at least in part - and I honestly kind of resent that.

Today there were two possibly cancer-related issues to address: rising cholesterol and osteoporosis. 

On average, menopause happens at age 52, and when it occurs before age 45, it's considered "early menopause". Because of my treatment for hormone-positive breast cancer, I went through medically-induced menopause, first in a potentially temporary manner at age 43 when I started Lupron injections (a form of ovarian suppression) in 2019, and then permanently soon after I turned 46 when I got my ovaries removed in 2022. 

The declining estrogen in menopause is linked to both rising cholesterol and bone loss, which can lead to osteopenia and osteoporosis. My cholesterol started increasing in 2022, crossed into the low end of the "high" range in 2023, and has stayed there ever since. Kaiser Permanente says women age 50 and older are at risk for osteopenia, but I was first diagnosed with it at age 43, and it just keeps getting worse. 

In addition to the lack of estrogen caused by ovary removal / menopause, my ongoing hormone therapy has me taking a daily aromatase inhibitor, a pill that lowers my estrogen even more by preventing it from being made from sources other than the ovaries. 

Now, can I know for sure that my cholesterol wouldn't be as high, or my osteopenia wouldn't be so bad, if I hadn't had medically-induced early menopause or hormone therapy due to cancer treatment? Of course not. Who knows. But my feeling is that menopause and hormone therapy have had a mild to moderate affect on my cholesterol and a giant affect on my bones. 

So what're we doing about these two issues.

For cholesterol, nothing for now. My PCP characterized my cholesterol as "stable", and my cardiologist previously said that it's not at the point of having to worry yet. It just annoys me that it continues to stay high, even though I've adopted a number of the recommended lifestyle changes for improving cholesterol. Since I already have a cardiologist, I suspect my PCP would just defer to her anyway. 

And speaking of deferring to specialists, that's exactly what my PCP is doing about my osteopenia. She referred me to the hospital network's "Bone Center" in the endocrinology department. I was surprised because my oncologist didn't even mention endocrinology. My PCP explained how treatment for osteopenia/osteoporosis is generally not long-term, like some are even limited to like 3-5 years at a time. And since I'm younger than the average osteopenia patient, any treatment plan should take into consideration my life expectancy, balancing my current condition with potential future needs. Moreover, because my osteopenia is likely linked to hormonal changes due to menopause, seeing an endocrinologist, a specialist in hormone-related disorders, makes sense. 

I have to admit, at first I felt really burdened by this referral. Another specialist?! Like, COME ON!! But while I was on the phone making the appointment, I started to feel better. When the scheduler said I could see someone in a suburban satellite office, I was so relieved I wouldn't have to drive into the city!! I was a little wary when she offered up a nurse practitioner instead of a doctor, but I've had good luck with nurse practitioners, plus she said the NP specializes in post-menopausal women with osteoporosis! So I think I'll be in good hands. I'll have to wait a while to find out, though, since my appointment - the first available - isn't until the end of February.

9/12/26: Cost Update

Wow, I haven't done a cost update in over a year.

Our health insurance has a July-to-June coverage year, so this update includes my cancer-related costs through all of the last coverage year (which ended in June 2026) til now. 

We have a high deductible health plan, which means we pay a lot out of pocket at the start of each coverage year, and then at some point towards the end of our coverage year we meet the deductible, and the remaining appointments until the end of June are fully covered.  

Thankfully, prescriptions work differently, and my anastrozole is always fully covered. 

So for this update, I'll list the amount billed / retail price (which gets added to the "total cost"), and then in parentheses I'll include the amount I had to pay after insurance processed the claim (which gets added to the "cost to me").

One more note: Usually there are two charges for each appointment, one for the hospital and one for the provider. As of the time of this post, however, only the hospital charge for my last oncology appointment shows up on my health insurance online account. 

10/16/25: Anastrozole (generic): $545.99 (Covered by insurance)
1/12/26: Anastrozole (generic): $545.99 (Covered by insurance)
4/10/26: Anastrozole (generic): $545.99 (Covered by insurance)
6/15/26: Medical Oncologist Appointment Hospital + Blood Work: $1,035.00 (Covered by insurance) 
6/26/26: Cardiologist Appointment + EKG: $440.00 (Covered by insurance) 
6/26/26: Cardiologist Hospital + EKG + Blood Work: $510.00 (Covered by insurance) 
7/9/26: Anastrozole (generic): $545.99 (Covered by insurance)
8/18/26: Bone Density Radiologist: $138.00 (I paid $26.25)
8/18/26: Bone Density Hospital: $1,082.00 (I paid $325.15) 

Total cost to date: $486,575.30
With insurance, cost to me: $17,260.03

9/8/26: I Got a Moderna Updated Covid Vaccine

I always want to get the Novavax protein-based covid vaccine because I've had better luck with it in terms of side effects than with Pfizer or Moderna, both of which usually knock me out for 1-2 days. But with cases rising in my area, coinciding with the annual surge among kids at the start of the new school year (plus my husband is a teacher), I figured it'd be best to just get the earliest available 2026-2027 option, and our local CVS happened to be offering Moderna.

Given my track record of bad side effects with mRNA covid vaccines, I made a point to drink water before the shot and also to stay hydrated afterwards. I aimed to drink 70 oz. of water and ended up drinking 80 oz. before going to bed. I also tried to keep my left arm active.

So I got the shot in my upper left arm around noon on Saturday, and it began aching within an hour. Interestingly, it progressed only to a soreness in the upper arm area - it didn't become painful and it didn't restrict my range of motion (as has happened in the past). I was a bit more tired than usual in the evening and went to bed early, but all that water took its toll and I woke up every 1-2 hours to use the bathroom. Thankfully, I was able to fall right back asleep, except the last time, which was just before dawn. I was still tired so I laid in bed for hours just to keep resting.

Notably, when I finally got out of bed, I didn't have any of the side effects I'd had before - no fever, no chills, no body aches, no persistent headache. I did have a little headache, which felt consistent with the inability to fall back asleep in the early morning. I also felt more tired than usual, but not like a heavy fatigue. 

For all of Sunday, my left upper arm continued to feel sore, and I felt kind of sluggish. I went to bed early again, and by Monday morning the soreness had subsided enough that I could at least lie on my left side. I woke up feeling refreshed, like I did sleep enough, but still had low energy, which continued all day. Tuesday (today) was my first day feeling back to normal.

Overall, side effects felt on par with what I experienced with the protein-based Novavax vaccine, which is to say, a lot fewer than what I had previously with mRNA vaccines. I was all set to credit the 80 oz. of water I drank, but then just this morning I learned that there are TWO versions of Moderna available this year! According to that link: "Moderna has developed mNEXSPIKE, a next-generation COVID-19 vaccine that uses only one-fifth the mRNA dose of their Spikevax vaccine." 

Nothing in the process of making my CVS appointment told me which Moderna vaccine I would be getting, but when I log into my CVS account now, I can see under "Prescriptions" that I got "Mnexspike 2026-2027", the newer lower-dose mRNA vaccine! Moderna reports that "rates of solicited local and systemic adverse reactions were generally similar between the 2 vaccines", but I'm inclined to think that for me personally, even though the 80 oz. of water probably didn't hurt, it was likely the low-dose vaccine that led to me having far fewer side effects this year.